↑ Pick an objection above.
The one you have raised. The one someone raised against you. The one you can't quite answer.
Notice what happened. Not a single one of these objections was dismissed with a sneer. Not a single one was shouted down. Each was heard, honored as a real concern, and then walked carefully through Scripture until the sharper edge of the Bible itself answered it.
If you have been told that the doctrines of grace require you to ignore verses, flatten verses, or explain verses away, you have been told a lie by people who have not read the whole Bible on this. The doctrines of grace do not ignore "whosoever will." They let "whosoever will" mean whosoever will — and then they let the Bible tell you where the will comes from. The doctrines of grace do not delete God's love for the world. They let the world mean the world — and then they let the Bible tell you what love accomplishes when God is the subject of the verb.
The difference between sovereign grace and resistible grace is not that one respects the text and the other doesn't. The difference is that sovereign grace lets every word of the text stand at its full weight, and resistible grace has to keep shrinking certain words to make its system work. If Jesus draws everyone but most resist, then "drawing" has to mean something other than what the Greek says it means. If God wills everyone to be saved and most aren't, then God's will has to mean something other than what it means when He wills a universe into existence. At a certain point, the Bible stops being allowed to speak for itself.
On this side of the divide, we let it speak. And when it speaks, this is what it says.